“Stop stressing about it and will just happen.”
“Just relax and let it happen.”
“Stop putting so much pressure on yourself!”
“Worry will make it worse, just let it go!”
When we are seeking the sincerest desires of our hearts – the next step in life we are aching for – these words of advice come often from those around us. Whether it is finding a spouse, trying to conceive, or waiting for a wayward child to come back, it seems that the answer is to give up, to stop trying. But when it is the thing you want most, how do you stop trying?